We all want our children to be well behaved when we leave them with babysitters, family and friends so...you may tell them, You listen to the babysitter (friend or family member) You do everything they tell you to do... Please be a good girl / boy I don't want to come home and find that you have not been doing what you have been told to do, and so on... We put our children in quite a predicament if they are with an abusive person. Over 90% of child sexual abuse is perpetrated